It should be difficult because of the pants and she may want them off. Progressive: Kiss, making out, touch boob over clothes, touch butt over clothes, go under shirt for boob over bra, go for making out with shirts off, take off bra, lick boobs, (pants off starts to get more serious) see if she is interested in pants off by touching pussy over pants first, then go inside pants but over panties, then under.
It’s irrational to think she will suddenly stop and scream get out. You now know she is only interested in making out in that moment. If she isn’t interested, she will remove your hand. If you escalate in order, she’ll let you know where you’ve gone too far and you can recover.įor example: if you kiss her, make out a bit, then move your hand to her boob. If you’re getting vibes she would want a kiss, you should try.ĭepending on how that goes, she may be interested in more.Įscalate progressively until she (or you) is no longer interested. Is it safe to assume that she wants you to escalate to sex if she invites you to watch something as a date or invites you after you have been to a bar?Īnd I find it really hard to get in the ‘mood’ and want to have sex if I am initiating (like I have to force myself to?) - how do you fix this? This was already really late like 2am and I was fucking tired so it was hard to jump in, I only wish I’d done it way sooner like half an hour into watching.Īfter I kissed we escalated to sex but it was quite lacklustre and being really exhausted I could perform well so it ended up being a bit shit. Then eventually I just forced myself to jump in for the kiss. We ended up watching for way too long, just sitting there. I knew it wasn’t just to watch something, but I kept hesitating and was afraid of escalating as I didn’t want to be ‘pushy’ or seem like I only wanted sex. One of the more recent times, she came over to watch something and we sat on the couch and were fairly cosy, she was sitting close to me and I had my arm around her. I absolutely relate to this and have fucked up many times. Mod harassment may result in a permanent ban.Ĭommunity Join us in Discord Online Resources
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